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Civil Unions Don't Work! (dot com)

by: Juan Melli

Mon Feb 18, 2008 at 10:41:48 PM EST



The Civil Unions Review Commission report to be issued tomorrow makes painfully clear that civil unions aren't providing equality for New Jersey families. They simply don't work, and no amount of tweaking, phone calls and letters from the Governor, or lapse of time can fix a fundamentally flawed system explicitly designed to set up a separate, second-class status of citizens.

CivilUnionsDon'tWork.com

The CURC's report is based in part on testimony from real families that have been denied equality as a result of the Civil Union Act. That testimony spanned many hours over the course of three public hearings, but the 21 page report contains just a fraction of those stories.

But anyone who doubts how real this problem is can see for themselves by visiting CivilUnionsDon'tWork.com. It's a new website by Garden State Equality that contains more than 80 youtube videos with over 8 hours of testimony on how civil unions have affected New Jersey families. Check it out, and then tell your legislators that it's time for marriage equality.

I attended the public hearing in New Brunswick, and I thought this was one of the more moving stories:

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Juan, Jay, SJBrian, and everyone who has posted front page items and valuable positive comments on this important issue: there really is no source other than BlueJersey for timely information about issues of importance to NJ's sexual minorities. You all provide a real benefit to all the citizens, first and second class, of New Jersey. I hope 2008 is the last year anyone feels the need to debate the merits of marriage equality.

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....and Garden State Equality's new south jersey chief Brian Mcginnis was just on FOX 29 Philly discussing this very issue.

It's hard to do live TV in the morning and Brian did an awesome job defending this report and underscoring that this is about basic human dignity.

I didn't realize how empowering it would feel to have GSE expand their sphere of influence to my very neighborhood, but they did and it does.

I  remember the last time we went into the ring for marriage equality (before we got the civil union compromise) I was not really ready to embrace the battle.  Forgive a tennis metaphor but there i was locked in and desperately hoping the opponent would double fault and just hand it to me.

Now i am like "Gimme that ball" so i can drill the person across the net with it.  I want it.  I want to take it or die out there trying and this is a pretty radical departure from my mindset last time around.

For a long time it's been easier for me personally to fight for some other person's equality.  Maybe it's easier that way.


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I hope the Governor watches with open eyes (4.00 / 1)
(Since it seemed like no one from the Governor's staff read the Civil Union Review Commission Report with an open mind.)

Seeing and hearing these people tell their stories makes it clear that discriminating with "the M word" is more than just unfortunate.

It's hypocritical and shameful in progressive NJ to continue denying couples the freedom to marry.  


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