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Bigots and homophobes fail to grasp the word "rights"

by: Adam L

Sat Feb 27, 2010 at 03:28:02 PM EST



In a post written by Len Deo, founder and president of the ironically named "New Jersey Family Policy Council", Deo serves up a stunning combination of ignorance, sexism, intolerance, bigotry and a wonderfully condescending tone in a screed against marriage equality.

First, he is dumbfounded (which I can understand if you only count the first syllable in that word) by the fact that Garden State Equality - a large organization whose purpose is to push for EQUAL treatment of same sex couples when it comes to civil (not religious) marriages - is refusing to give the hard earned and raised money of its members to those legislators who do not agree with their core principles (note, this basic misunderstanding is also shared by very prominent New Jersey Democrats, so Deo is far from alone in his "bewilderment").

Then, he talks about how marriage equality "proponents" - those who are so radical as to demand equal rights for civil (not religious) marriages between same sex couples - "fail to grasp" the will of the people, citing the New Jersey Constitution in stating "All political power is inherent in the people."

"Fail to grasp".  

What Deo and his fellow bigots and homophobes fail to grasp is that marriage equality is neither a political matter that his supposed example applies to, nor is something subject to the "will of the people".  Marriage equality is just that - equality.  A basic human and civil right that shouldn't be voted away by a majority comprised of self-loathing bigoted homophobic fools who demonize entire groups to soothe their own fears.

This isn't something that should be put on a ballot.  This isn't something that should be polled to see if it is a good idea "politically".  This falls under one of the most basic tenets that this country was founded on - and later expanded upon as future generations came to see that past and precedent failed to satisfy that tenet:

Equality.

From "all men are created equal" to expanding the right to vote to those who were previously and unfairly denied this right to basic civil rights.

And now this.

There should be no "will of the people" - except if it is referring to the will of the people to look at themselves for what they are - either tolerant and in favor of equal rights or bigoted and homophobic - and in favor of oppression, unequal treatment, discrimination and "separate but equal".

Adam L :: Bigots and homophobes fail to grasp the word "rights"
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Simple solution (0.00 / 0)
The State is granted the power to only perform civil ceremonies. Marriage is reduced to a religious element only recognized within the confines of the particular church performing the ceremony.
This keeps everyone on equal footing and marginalizes religious fanatics.

Restore democracy and the Constitution for which it stands.

Stunning hypocrisy by our anti-LGBT opponents (4.00 / 1)
For the last three years, Len Deo and his fellow opponents of marriage equality said, in arguing that marriage equality should go to the ballot, that the legislature does not represent the will of the people, marriage equailty is not a matter for the legislature, and so on.  Now Deo says just the opposite. Say anything, do anything.

A Simple European Solution (4.00 / 1)
In most European countries a marriage is performed by the civil authority first (the legal ceremony), followed by a religious ceremony if the couple wishes it.  

Adopting this dual solution would cut out a lot of the bullshit being bandied about.  Everyone would be subject to the civil requirement (which should make it easier to pass marriage equality) and everyone would have the option of a religious ceremony, should they choose.

This would have the added benefit of taking the civil power of marrying people from the clergy and leaving it in the hands of the state where it belongs.  The clergy can continue to represent their faith(s) and perform their marriage rituals as they and their followers see fit.  


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