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Quote of the day: The appearance of a relationship is enough... even online

by: Jason Springer

Tue Sep 22, 2009 at 08:48:04 PM EDT



Matt Friedman yesterday wrote a piece talking about some of the questions raised by social networking including who you friend and whether you unfriend people when they get in trouble. Jay Lassiter had this take on it:
"It's just about who do you lie down with in cyber space...  The appearance of a relationship is convincing enough," he said.  "I guess we take a risk. Every person we friend could end up being The Unabomber."
There doesn't seem to be a clear standard yet for social media and what happens when the people who use the platforms become a liability because they are connected to you. Do you unfriend people if they have their own troubles and is the appearance of a relationship online convincing enough? Does it become a bigger story if you unfriend or remain friends?
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nice to see Jay cited (0.00 / 0)
Anyway, I agree with Patrick Murray:

"The person who decides to start something and make a stink about this is almost certainly going to have somebody on his or her friends list that is equally embarrassing,"

It would be silly to make a fuss over someone's personal choices. I'm all for those who feel betrayed un-friending and commenting, etc., but at the same time, it's great to stay friends if you really are, or just want to see what happens next.  Being a "friend" on facebook can have many meanings.

 

Frank LoBiondo Record and Jon Runyan Watch


friending (0.00 / 0)
There is entirely too much facebook friending going on in the first place.  Most of the facebookers who ask to be my friend have no relationship with me and no common interests that either of us know about.   On the other hand, if you are somebody's friend, you don't dump them the minute they get in trouble.  

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My take is this has nothing to do with friending or questionable associations and has everything to do with making a public statement about political corruption.  FB is the new "Town Square" and Jay took a stand on a very busy corner. And if any one actually cared what I had to say, I'd do the same thing!  

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